Well last time I was wondering what to do about the 3 guys...well Chad Jensen is done for. He got drunk in the bar and called me a bitch and got in my face and was yelling at me, umm no thanks..then Sean and I have been hanging out, I spent last Saturday night at his place and he asked me to be his girlfriend, (I thought that I was in the 7th grade for a second, but then we did things that only people who are 22+ should be doing.)I said yes, whatever. Then on Tuesday he tells me that he has to go over to Bay City for court to get more time with his son. Alright not a problem, and then on Wednesday or Thursday I am talking to him and he is like oh well I wanted to tell you about what really happened when I went to court the other day, and I was like um? Well I thought that you had to go for time with Jordyn and what not, and he was like well yea, but there were some other things too, and he told me, that he had to go and the case was dismissed because there wasn't any evidence or whatever, well the case that was at hand here was his ex went all psycho crazy one night and threw him out and called the cops on him saying that he hit her and all what not.
Well, he said he didn't, his friend who was there and saw the whole thing said he didn't, she had nothing to prove that he did hurt her.
Well GREAT your name was cleared, the bigger picture here is that you lied to me about why you were going over there. THEN he gets mad at me and tells me that he needs to reevaluate our relationship because I wasn't overly joyous when his name was cleared, well yea I was happy for you, but I was a little more upset with the fact that you lied to me to be happy.
On Friday we are talking and whatever and he is liked well Jordyn called and wants me to come over today, and I am trying to find a ride over there. I was going to offer to take him over there, but then I didn't talk to him for a few hours and then he texted me at like 4 something and tells me that HIS EX CAME AND GOT HIM AND DROVE HIM TO SAGINAW TO SEE HIS SON. Ok, what is wrong with that? I get that she is his sons mother, yes they do have to talk to eachother and see eachother I do understand this, BUT HE SPENDS WAAAAYYY TOOOOO MUCH TIME WITH HER. He then tells me that his brother or sister is going to come get him and take him up to Bay City to hang out for the weekend. Ok, cool, I leave for Mackinac in weeks and here you are spending UNNECESSARY time with your ex. THANKS. So I get pissed and don't talk to him all night. (By now I have got pissed and selected 'single' on facebook.) He calls me on Saturday morning and tells me that he is getting ready to go watch his sons brother play soccer, I thought that this was odd because he was supposed to be in Bay City NOT Saginaw. Well turns out that no one could come get him and he spent the night with his ex, well that's ok because they had a sleepover and he slept with his son in his EXS bed, and she slept on the floor with her other kids. UMM OK? Then she gets mad at him for talking to me and he leaves and comes back to Lakeview.
So we talk about it and I explained to him how he would hate it if I had my ex come and get me and then tell him about it when I had been with Tom for 2+ hours, and then I tell him that I spent the night with him? And he was all like, well yea I understand and what not..BUT
I just don't know, I mean he is FUN to be around, he is SUPER cute, built like no other, just an absolute doll, he is SUPER complimentry, just a doll. AND, he is the first "boyfriend" I have had since Tom, and it is nice to be with someone who is comfortable. AND, he is good in bed, PLUS!!! SCORE!! So, I don't know, like today we were hanging out and ever since we have been "together" his best friend who is this SUPER fat girl, has been a BITCH to him and to me. I knew the first time that I met her that she didn't like me. This girl professed her love to him the day after he and I started dating. I told him I was like, "you have to deal with this now, because it will get UGLY fast if you are not careful, and I guarantee no matter what, with you telling her if you do/are not interested in her at all, it'll get ugly." So, he went out on a Sunday morning just after we all got done eating breakfast and talked to her for like a half hour and she cried and spilled her heart out to him.
Well today I was with him and we ran up to the Wesco store to get something and she was there and she texted him and was talking to him about something else that happened this weekend (I didn't ask because I didn't think it was my business), and when we got back to his aunts house I went in the bathroom and came back out and his aunt looked at me with his phone in her hand and was like, umm not cool and then I was like, what is going on? I mean when 2 of the 3 people in the room know what is going on and you don't you REALLY start to feel like the odd man out, so Kim was like you don't want to know what that said, and I was like Umm yea I do. So she tells me that this text message was from Savannah and she was like well good luck with your slut and what not. Then I was like well, "I'm sorry that she decided to profess her love to you the day after you start dating someone..." and now she's just being a stupid bitch. So he sent her a message and his aunt sent her one too that was saying like has no reason to talk about me like that, she hasn't even given me the chance to get to know her...so I don't know.
The moral to this is that I don't know if he is my boyfriend or not. I do like him, he is a GREAT guy but the unnecessary time that is being spent with his ex is something that I can't deal with. I was cheated on before, I know that I can't punish him for something that my ex did, but when he gives me a story that in itself is hard to believe, what do I do?
Boyfriend or No Boyfriend...
OH! The married guy, manfriend #3, things are GOOOOOOD!!!
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